I love the idea of loving my fate.....it's a few steps beyond acceptance, isn't it? "Amor Fati" - I can only presume that if we are NOT in love with our fate than it's on us to change it. Or at least our attitude toward it. I've found that we have great power over our thoughts. It's helping me in my separation and settlement agreements. I can choose to feel taken advantage of. Or I can choose to feel free and independent...and do I dare say it, even grateful. : )