How to Fall in Love in 5 Minutes

When I ask this question in San Francisco, men hem and haw. They ask me to define exactly what I MEAN by the word “love.” After we create an over-thought five paragraph definition (notarized by lawyers), they * might * deem ONE person in their lives that fits the bill. How did love become transformed into such a grandiose, unattainable concept? It should be easy, no?

My hypothesis: Most 30+ single Americans are afraid of love.

#1 Stop Dating.

#2 Take a Chance

#3 Love what is in front of you RIGHT NOW!

#4 Overinduldge

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writer. thinker. whiskey drinker. let me help you tell your story. Published here, there and elsewhere across the world. @hisern / www.heidiisern.com

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Heidi K. Isern

Heidi K. Isern

writer. thinker. whiskey drinker. let me help you tell your story. Published here, there and elsewhere across the world. @hisern / www.heidiisern.com

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